I had people pester me a bit too about our wedding not having a bar (I'm referring to myself and vettecat obviously). I finally got upset enough to at least comment to Elka that if people couldn't enjoy our happiest day without getting drunk, who needs them!

The only alcohol we had was in the wine bottle for the ceremony, and we managed okay. I really think going alkie-free will save you quite a bit, and let's face it, we can all be thrilled for you without it.

You and Arniss are the only people who matter on that day. Believe it. We do.