I'm sorry that your mother feels bad about this, but honestly that's her problem and not yours. I know she's a wonderful woman, and that she's very kind and generous, but in this her desire to make things perfect for you is interfering with what ought to be your happiness.

But I tell you, here and now, that your wedding will be Storybook Perfect. I know this, because I know the bride, and whether she is married wearing a flour sack or a satin gown, she will be the very essence of bridal beauty and perfection in that moment.