"I just want to note that I will not care in the least what you spend on your wedding or where it is held or any of a hundred simmilar things.
All I will care about is that I get to see the two of you get married and have a wonderful day (as part of an ongoing wonderful life).

That being said I'm willing to assit if there is anything you think I could help with.
I can even offer you a black & red flamed hot rod cadillac[1] to be used as the limo for your wedding..."


[1] because in theory the weather will have warmed up enough by then to have finish painting it.