{{{{hugs}}}} I've been engaged for a year and a half now, and am no closer to actually getting married. When I do it will be low-key, kegs and barbeque somewhere nice near the beach. Because it's my day and I want to not have to wear the merangue dress and have the suits and pomp and circumstance.

I guess what I'm trying to say is as long as you have fun and it's the kind of day you'll remember happily for the rest of your life, well, the rest isn't important.