If the bakery is your biggest annoyance, you're doing pretty well!

And, you're very welcome. I'd be happy to make you a groom's cake. It would probably be easier to transport (fewer tiers), and groom's cakes are often chocolate. :-) Though it certainly doesn't have to be; you can let me know your preference when it gets closer. If you like we can get together some time and look at cake magazines...