I'm so far from over this particular issue that it's almost funny.

Maybe you should find a way in your mind to make it funny for real.

That isn't callous, really. I've found that I can live with an awful lot, as long as I can mock it. It got me through brain surgery, and the times that were the worst were the times when I lost the humor. So I worked hard to get it back.

I suspect it wasn't reality that came along and slapped you in the face. It was probably stress about other things. Many people deal with stress via food, so perhaps you're dealing with it the same way, only using yogurt instead of ice cream.

Either way, I hope you're happy soon. You're one of my best friends, and I hate that you're not happy.