As it happens, no joke, while I was reading this further bit of bad news, this performance of this song just happened to come on. So, in my own long-distance Internetty way, this is as close as I can get to singing this to you in the most direct and heartfelt way I can.



Also, everyone grieves in their own way. Grieve the way you need, not the way the family or anyone else expects you to. Barbara won't mind. She knows.

Also also, hugs.