Late to the party, but GoodThoughts being sent for you and Moxie both.

Personally, I fault the clinic as much as the fosterer -- they obviously didn't even LOOK at Moxie when you brought her in, if they were in such a hurry to say you were "in denial" about her condition. Forghodsakes, you're a VET -- your professional opinion should be worth something, or why are they working with you at all? I think something is wrong here beyond just what happened to you and your baby.