I rather envy you that, actually. I'm largely a messy mix of touch hungry, and wary of protecting my own "personal space". The reasons are unimportant, but one of the things I really like about fandom is by and large the people there are remarkably free of personal space issues, and safe for snuggling, touching and just relaxing with. It's a talent I'm working on acquiring - that you (and others, such as autographed cat) have it naturally is something I admire.