I feel you on the pouring tea thing. For me, after my spinal surgery, it was being able to put my own socks and shoes on. It sounds so dumb, but I was really excited the first time I could do that in months.

*hugs* Hang in there - I'm rooting for you. And also hoping for no more accidents; you've had the worst luck. The rest of the year better be superawesomeamazing to make it up to you. *glares at the year*