Another one with experience of the self-assurance issue & cycle chiming in with Spiritdance, she said it so well & with relevant background. When the guessing is counterproductive for *you* and hurting you, it's time to start talking, find a quiet moment and ask, instead. Talk to them, talk *with* them. It's in all your mutual interest.
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Date: 2005-02-04 07:22 am (UTC)When the guessing is counterproductive for *you* and hurting you, it's time to start talking, find a quiet moment and ask, instead. Talk to them, talk *with* them. It's in all your mutual interest.
*hugs*