Hm. Darlin', I want you to be happy, and when you do, you shine. But I sure as heck don't want you burning yourself from the inside out to make pretty light to look at.
I don't know if this will help - I know it often wouldn't help me - but if the only thing you can do is worry, well... why worry? Be mindful, and aware; keep your eyes open for a chance to do something to make things better. But what will be, will be, whether you worry or not.
And yeah, "stop worrying", that's not easy. I don't know if a person can stop worrying. But sometimes, if you find something to keep yourself occupied, you can "not worry", if you understand the distinction.
Good luck and wonderful jobhunting vibes are sent to Arnis; I hope things get better for you both.
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Date: 2007-01-20 08:50 pm (UTC)I don't know if this will help - I know it often wouldn't help me - but if the only thing you can do is worry, well... why worry? Be mindful, and aware; keep your eyes open for a chance to do something to make things better. But what will be, will be, whether you worry or not.
And yeah, "stop worrying", that's not easy. I don't know if a person can stop worrying. But sometimes, if you find something to keep yourself occupied, you can "not worry", if you understand the distinction.
Good luck and wonderful jobhunting vibes are sent to Arnis; I hope things get better for you both.