Loss

Jul. 26th, 2011 09:22 am
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Last month I noticed that my little orange cat wasn't eating as well as usual. Nothing else, but being the paranoid mommy I am, after a day or so I brought him in to work for some tests. By the end of the week I had the answer - pancreatic carcinoma, already metastasized to his liver. When even the oncologist's only response is, 'wow, that's a crap disease,' you know you're in trouble.

He rallied at first, with some basic supportive care, but when I got home this weekend I realized he had taken a major turn for the worse. This morning when I woke up, and saw how he was breathing... It couldn't wait any longer. I took him into work before my shift started, and did the only thing I still could to help him.

Goodbye, Tristan. My peanut gallery, my weirdo, my wall-licking strange orange beast. You were awesome, and I love you.

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Date: 2011-07-26 01:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] guendalina.livejournal.com
I am so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2011-07-26 01:28 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-07-26 01:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] filkerdave.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry.

*gentle hugs*

Date: 2011-07-26 01:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com
I'm sorry for your loss.

Date: 2011-07-26 01:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dreda.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2011-07-26 01:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iamjw.livejournal.com
*hugs offered* I'm sorry.

Date: 2011-07-26 02:01 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] hungrytiger
*hugs*

There's never much good to say in situations like this (as I'm sure you know better than I), but I do want to let you know that you are one of the most wonderful people I know with a heart that is full of love. Tristan was a lucky cat to know you.

Date: 2011-07-26 02:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hugh-mannity.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2011-07-26 02:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] matildalucet.livejournal.com
I'm sorry. He sounds like he was special. (Wall-licking?) I know he was loved.

Date: 2011-07-26 02:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deguspice.livejournal.com
I'm sorry. On the positive side, you gave him a bit of extra time and love.

Date: 2011-07-26 03:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lolleeroberts.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry for your loss. Little orange weirdos have a way of stealing our hearts.

Date: 2011-07-26 03:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] starcat-jewel.livejournal.com
My deepest condolences on your loss. It's never easy to make that decision, but sometimes it's the only moral thing to do.

Date: 2011-07-26 06:04 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jducoeur
Hugs and condolences...

Date: 2011-07-26 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] crash-mccormick.livejournal.com

Our condolences.

Date: 2011-07-26 06:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jerusha.livejournal.com
I'm sorry.

Date: 2011-07-26 07:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evcelt.livejournal.com
Beautiful Bast giving Life,
Hail Bast, in visible form,
Casting light into the darkness,
I have come before you,
The path is opened,
The earth is at peace.


Lady Bast, accept Your child Tristan into Your presence. Grant him peace and healing, and comfort the hearts of those who miss him.

::hugs::

Date: 2011-07-26 07:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bess.livejournal.com
Big Hugs.

Date: 2011-07-26 07:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] catalana.livejournal.com
I'm sorry for your loss. *hugs*

Date: 2011-07-26 07:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] filkertom.livejournal.com
So very sorry. Hugs and hugs.

Date: 2011-07-26 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leanne-opaskar.livejournal.com
*hugs* I'm sorry about about your kitty. ): *hugshugs*

Date: 2011-07-26 08:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] johnpalmer.livejournal.com
Hugs, and comfort, offered. I'm so sad for you and poor Tristan.

Date: 2011-07-26 10:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] droewyn.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. I met him a couple times. He was a sweetheart.

Date: 2011-07-26 10:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] autographedcat.livejournal.com
*hugsyoutightly*

Date: 2011-07-26 11:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] auntiemame67.livejournal.com
*hug*. Just *hug*
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2011-07-27 12:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dagibbs.livejournal.com
Oh no! I am sorry. You have my great sympathy, and lots and lots of *hugs*.

Date: 2011-07-27 12:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] felis-sidus.livejournal.com
Oh...sorry. Sorry. So very very sorry.

Date: 2011-07-27 12:57 am (UTC)

Date: 2011-07-27 01:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jdulac.livejournal.com
my deep sympathies...

Date: 2011-07-27 02:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gyzki.livejournal.com
Hugs and sympathies.
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2011-07-27 04:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] solipsistnation.livejournal.com
The thing to remember, I think, is what his life would have been without you-- short and empty.

You gave him life and love for as long as you could. His life was better because of you. His life WAS because of you.

That it wasn't as long as you'd have wanted does not diminish that. Remember him with love.

Date: 2011-07-27 01:10 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mermaidlady
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2011-07-27 11:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] glinda-w.livejournal.com
I am so sorry.

Date: 2011-07-29 05:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vettecat.livejournal.com
Very sorry for your loss.

Date: 2011-07-29 12:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rickvs.livejournal.com
*comfort*

Date: 2011-08-01 02:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hermitgeecko.livejournal.com
I'm so very sorry.

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