Well - you probably need to learn to accept legitimate pride about yourself. On the other hand, you "need" to learn that when you're *ready* to learn about that. When it's a bit nerve-wracking, but not flat out scary.
It's possible to say "I did X better than I did last week, and I'm proud of that" and not be braggy and arrogant. So if that's acceptable to her, maybe that's a good start? But again: as I said, lessons are for when you're ready, not for when someone else tells you you're ready.
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Date: 2014-11-14 06:06 am (UTC)It's possible to say "I did X better than I did last week, and I'm proud of that" and not be braggy and arrogant. So if that's acceptable to her, maybe that's a good start? But again: as I said, lessons are for when you're ready, not for when someone else tells you you're ready.